DATING ??? love

  • View author's info Author posted on May 09, 2010 at 17:04


    I am a young girl living in the U.S. and getting ready to graduate from college.
    There is a guy i've been dating for a year & we are perfect together ONLY problem is he is not ready to settle right now, he is not ready to talk to my family & his family right now bcuz he is not financially stable....he's outta college looking for a stable job.

    On the other hand, there is another guy interested & serious about marriage. He wants to talk to my family and get their approval before talking to me first. He is financially ready & mentally ready as well. He is a little bit more religious than the other guy.

    The problem is i feel i connect with the 1st guy and part of me feels i should be patient with him and things will eventually work out.
    Then on the other hand the 2nd guy is ready & i feel if i let him go is like letting a once in a life time opportunity go....???

    anyyyy advise or suggestions will be greatly appreciated!
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  • View author's info posted on Jun 16, 2010 at 14:19


    This may be a little late, and your decision probably made, but in case it isn't, I encourage you to talk with the first guy - your expectations from the relationship ought to be well comprehended by him. If those match (and most likely some compromise is in the calling), ta da!

    If not, there is still an allure in the wait (it doesn't feel like one is settling simply because another person comes off sincere and ready - not that those are not desirable traits).

    Hope it works out well.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 09, 2010 at 14:21


    I think u should listen to your heart. If ur heart says wait for the first guy, you should wait.

    Marriage should be a once in life time thing.You should marry a person you love.

    Even if u let this 2nd guy go and things dont materialize with the 1st guy,there will be someone out there for you. :)
  • View author's info posted on May 31, 2010 at 21:01


    Pray salatul-istikhara. Talk to your parents about the guy who is not ready and the guy who is; ask them what they think.
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