gedu1010 and Doyin, Milwaukee, WI, United States, Oct 04, 2010
It will be almost impossible to meet in a real life. It wasn't that easy to date online or via telephone as it make things difficult. My wife winked at me in February 07 end i went to visit her in May 07 from US to Ireland. All went fine. But it was a short visit. Later we had some misunderstanding all because of the distance. We misperceived each other. But Al-Amudulillah all went fine again and we got married last July in USA. We love each other and we are planning to have kids. Please always pray for all couples and single in the entire world to make their way through in Allah's ways.
May Allah bless our mariage with his fear, his love, and our own patient to deal with any difficulty that might raise. Thank God for making this 3 years relationship result to a mariage and thankk you to all the team here. May Allah bless us.
Advice to other members:
My advise to others is to be very patient when dealing on long distance relationship, take your time, never rush. If your mate is here, God will make it possible. Also never say forever. For the fact that we grew up in different society and have different phylisophy might make thing hard until you get to know each other well. But the most important, is to be honest with yourself. Let your soulmate trust you. be straight forward. Put others in your own skin and try your best to learn from each other. they might be a way to compromise to each other and make thing work.